So, what do you when going to meetups, single events dating apps don't work?

I'm chilling on my bed, and I tried being more social in life last year, but I still haven't gotten any dates or girls to talk to? At this point, is it just me, or am I lacking something? Everyone tells me I'm funny, but it doesn't lead anywhere.

I'm just realizing that I'm going to be single in my 30s if I don't know how to fix this? How do you make dating fun and enjoyable when all you get is rejected and insecurities 🫠🫠🫠