Women saying they ripped “forward” but it was “totally worth it”

A mom on tik tok made a video saying her clit ripped completely forward during childbirth now she has no sensation during sex and a lack of intimacy with her husband. She also stated she had no idea your clit could even rip during birth. A woman commented under her video saying “Baby fever cured, thanks” and the mom responded back saying verbatim “It was totally worth it though, the love for my daughter made me forget about the pain dont let this stop you” I wanted to comment and say why did you even make the tiktok if you werent warning women and instead encouraging us to follow suit?! Is it delusion? Is it post-birth amnesia? Im so confused. Women can only largely orgasm through clitoral stimulation, and they’re 100% willingly giving up a lifetime of orgasms for 18+ years of hell? Men would never risk never having an orgasm again to bring kids into the world why are women so eager to do so? They’ll tell you their traumatic near death WWII birth experience, how they can’t enjoy sex or pee uncontrollably now and then say, “dont worry its definitely worth it give it a try” to other women ?? WTF. I just can’t wrap my damn head around giving up orgasms to raise children and then telling other women to do it too??? Nothing on this earth could convince me to risk giving away my orgasms. Men would NEVER give up orgasms to birth a kid. I dont know ONE man i could ask if he would choose to never cum again to have a baby and he’d say he would. They would all say FUCK no. What is wrong with my fellow sisters im so befuddled😭😭