How do y’all initiate sex with your partners?

I’ve been with my husband for 10 years and we’ve had ups and downs when it comes to our sex life. Over the last few months we’ve been having way more sex than the last few years, which is wonderful, and a lot of that is due to an increase in my libido. Unfortunately, I haven’t a shred of game so I find myself typically initiating one of two ways: 

• “What if we had sex before X (dinner, your next meeting, bed, etc.)?
• “Listen here: have sex with me!” 

He hasn’t complained, but I’m interested in trying something a little… I don’t know, sexier? Something that makes it feel more organic? How do y’all do it? Put me on game!