Why do men say these things?
I hooked up with this guy twice like 1.5 months ago. He wanted to date me seriously but I wasn’t willing to drive 25+ miles to him so he said “I’m straight on you”. I didn’t even respond because I didn’t really care. Three days later he’s like we obviously won’t work out as a couple but we can still be friends. I said fine, and if we’re near each other we can hit each other up. He’s tall, athletic, has his masters in finance, a good job, funny, etc. I thought he was a cool guy.
I got the implant about 2 months ago and only experienced about 3 weeks of spotting. This is my 2nd time having it so I already know how it works. He wanted to come over, I wasn’t interested in having sex, so I lied and said I was bleeding so he might hopefully change his mind(pic 1). He doesn’t, then proceeds to ask if I like giving head. I say no. The next day I tell him I’m not feeling well mentally so maybe he should come another day and he says #it’sthebirthcontrol(pic 2). Saturday morning, the day after I told him I don’t feel well mentally, he asks how his head was(pic 3). Why would you ask that if the day before I told you I don’t feel well? I ignore him then he texts me that same night telling me to answer his question. I don’t. Then today (pic 4) he asks if my vagina is still broken.
Even though we’re not dating seriously, why would you say any of these things to a woman? Telling me I should take the bc out, my vagina is broken, #itsthebirthcontrol, asking how your head was after I tell you I’m not well. Is this not disgusting?…I have never had a guy tell me what to do with my body and that my vagina is broken, even in a joking manner. This just feels so childish and I don’t have any girl friends to vent about this to…I’m feeling like I should just block him on everything but I also want to tell him how gross and inconsiderate he sounds and that no woman would appreciate these things being said to her. I’m 22, just starting to date and have fun, and I’m realizing most men genuinely do not care about women. Nothing in his brain was like “hey this might not be a good thing to say.” ???!
So far dating in HTX has been garbage. I’ve only been here for 4 months and nearly every guy I talk to just wants sex. I’m trying to find some girl friends out here but it’s been challenging :’) Should I tell this guy off or conserve my energy and block him?