Need fashion advice- feeling unstylish and unconfident

BWT- I need fashion advice. I used to feel wonderful in my clothes when I was in my 20s and 30s. Still would feel like I had nothing to wear and I had some body insecurities, but I always felt like my style was cool and edgy. I felt like I looked good and I enjoyed getting dresssed.

Two kids later, and I’m 40, and I have put on some weight, but nothing too crazy, I’m mostly the same. I used to be a skinny jeans gal and I had my various boots and shoes to go with it. The came my yoga pants era and that was my favorite- it was easy and comfy. I realized that I wasn’t feeling like myself and I was just dressing to be dressed and out the door and now I feel like I’m so unstylish and basic. I have retired my skinny jeans and I’m wearing this cute pair of mother jeans and they look good with my sneakers, but I can’t find a shoe that looks good with it for a more elevated look. I just feel like I look frumpy and unstylish.

I feel like my summer style is great- lots of dresses and I love my denim shorts and I feel confident and pretty.

Any advice on how to feel confident and pretty in my fall/winter looks? Ideally elevated casual looks with slightly wide leg/straight jeans + shoe rec. I added a pic of the jeans for reference.

BWT- I need fashion advice. I used to feel wonderful in my clothes when I was in my 20s and 30s. Still would feel like I had nothing to wear and I had some body insecurities, but I always felt like my style was cool and edgy. I felt like I looked good and I enjoyed getting dresssed.

Two kids later, and I’m 40, and I have put on some weight, but nothing too crazy, I’m mostly the same. I used to be a skinny jeans gal and I had my various boots and shoes to go with it. The came my yoga pants era and that was my favorite- it was easy and comfy. I realized that I wasn’t feeling like myself and I was just dressing to be dressed and out the door and now I feel like I’m so unstylish and basic. I have retired my skinny jeans and I’m wearing this cute pair of mother jeans and they look good with my sneakers, but I can’t find a shoe that looks good with it for a more elevated look. I just feel like I look frumpy and unstylish.

I feel like my summer style is great- lots of dresses and I love my denim shorts and I feel confident and pretty.

Any advice on how to feel confident and pretty in my fall/winter looks? Ideally elevated casual looks with slightly wide leg/straight jeans + shoe rec. I added a pic of the jeans for reference.