Has anyone here successfully stopped drinking? As a BWT I love a good wine or a cocktail with dinner but want to stop and need some hacks

I love having a glass of wine while making dinner every night, or getting a cocktail while out to dinner. I can’t lie that I’m feeling a bit shameful for this since so many people are sober curious / sober now and I can’t seem to stick with it. I’m finding it hard to stop (that feels vulnerable to say) because it signals the end of the day or relaxation for me. Kind of like the feeling of having coffee in the morning. I’ve tried mocktails or topo Chico and that usually works, but I guess I have a problem with consistency and discipline in sticking to that. I’d love to hear any tips or hacks that made you very selective when drinking (or stopping altogether)!