My mom is rabid about my birth control choices

My mother is really insistent that I not do anything that chances me having another child, to the point that she's irrational about it. Like shaming me for having sex with condoms but no birth control (still responsible imo). She's pro life so I know in the event I got knocked up again she wouldn't approve of an abortion. I know she's just concerned for me and hypothetical future children that could inherit my bipolar, but it makes me feel like the worst parent in the world that she's THAT insistent I not have another child. Thoughts?