How do you ladies have the energy to always look beautiful…

I see these ladies and their hair is always curled, makeup always fresh and they smell like roses. Meanwhile I don’t. I’m not self conscious or unhappy with myself, I know how to do it. However, the effort only lasts a few hours. Plus, doing it every day is absolutely exhausting. Is there some kind of life hack I’m missing?

I’ve been told that they will curl their hair once and it lasts a few days but mine never does. It always falls flat or if I use hairspray it just becomes a rats nest. Do I need certain products or what? And do people shower every single night? If so, how do you get the curls to last… How often are you washing your hair. Are you dry shampooing in between? Are you getting manicures regularly? If so, how often. Please spill all your beauty secrets in the comments LOL!