Am I too messy?

I’ve (28F) been living in a 2bed/2bath apartment with my roommate (28M) since September. Since the beginning, he has sent me texts about cleaning messes in the kitchen. I consider myself a clean person, but his expectation of cleanliness is extreme. A grain of rice on the floor, I received a text to sweep the floor. Small crumbs of food in the counter, a get a text the next morning about how I need to clean the counter. I normally just clean it, but overtime it has started to really bother me. I only cook when he isn’t home, and spend most of my time in my room. He has a very rigid schedule. He works 9-5 M-F, vs I work nights and weekends. He does his meal prep on Sunday, and then just reheats his food for the week. He cooks and deep cleans the kitchen after, and then doesn’t really cook again until the next Sunday. I love to cook, and cook daily. I do my dishes immediately, (normally hand wash, I don’t really use the dishwasher, which he insists on running daily, regardless if it’s only one plate) wipe down the counters, and put away any leftovers. I will sweep the floor like once or twice a week, and mop the floor once a week. I deep clean the stovetop (remove grates etc) once or twice a week. He expects me to deep clean the kitchen after each use. Per his texts, he wants me to Sweep, mop, wipe down cabinets, deep clean the stove, etc. I think that’s excessive, as I cook almost every day. Because of these issues, I found a new apartment. I’m finding someone to take over the remainder of my lease, because I no longer feel comfortable using the kitchen, because I am sick of these passive aggressive messages about how messy it is afterwards. He does not speak to me, not even to say hi. We only communicate via text, and it’s always just him pointing out a tiny mess. So I’m leaving March 1st. A few days ago I received another message about a “mess” and I finally stood up for myself and told him it wasn’t messy enough for him to be upset about. Am I the messy one? Am I the asshole? I think he just has unrealistic expectations of a shared space, but am I wrong?