Raving/ late night parties after 30, how to stay awake and have energy throughout the night?

I'm in my early 30s and like to enjoy them somewhat sober but the biggest problem I have at every party is I get so insanely tired where even trying to stimulate myself with caffeine and nicotine i still find myself sitting in my car trying to keep my head up as I'm shutting down experiencing large amounts of fomo because i can hear the killer sets going on.

I will even take small amounts of other things, i dont enjoy being high i just want the energy and it doesn't work that well.

I do love socializing and dancing and other things but I feel like I just don't have the energy for it anymore especially because I naturally wake up around 5am and I'm out usually 9pm.

What has worked for you to have energy throughout the night while staying relatively sober? Would love to get more out of the parties I go to once in a blue moon.

Thanks