Dating help

Hello! I have a question about dating in general. As a neurodivergent male in his 30s, I find it difficult to find like-individuals. I’ve been told to find a neurodivergent female for a significant other. I’ve looked into the other apps such as Hiki, and they don’t seem to be in my area (even 60+ miles).

How does one attempt to find a neurodivergent female while not closing off neurotypicals?