is r/detrans gender-essentialist trying to erase trans identity?
I was congratulating a detranstioning girl for finding her identity (/sense of belonging regarding her physical morphology) only to find that trans people are essentially banned from that space. Are they trying to erase trans identity and "cure transness"?
I'm a bit scared to post this in r/OutOfTheLoop because apparently idk what places are inclusive
Did I say something bad? Here's my deleted post: "<3 so happy for you, missy! Transition is tough and I wish you like every other detrans/cisgender sibling a fullfilleed life full of self-love and love from your next-of-kin I hope you can see transition as part of your journey and not something you should be ashamed of. It's good to ask questions about your identity, start small and not rush things before committing to the irreversible. Much love"
Edit: Saw a popular post of a detransitioner (fake/misguided?) who wants to make their story public, advocating for further limiting teens' access to transition related healthcare. Then there's a comment that's downvoted to hell talking about how they should just live their life according to their own wishes, get help for their other problems and move on. OP replied with themselves still suffering from dysphoria and that there is no help
it's like the red flags form a forest rn
what's weirder is my initial message was said to be deleted but it wasn't(???) so I'm gonna do the misguided souls a favor and remove it myself as to not appear like a GC f***wit like the one spawning this abomination of a sub quite obviously is.
/end of blog-post
P.S. edit: the onslaught of harassment have only confirmed my ever-growing suspicion 😊 [to my adversary: Blocked and reported, enjoy your IP ban] Does anybody have a comprehensive list of hateful/transphobic/generally questionable subbredits they could share with me in my DMs?