I can’t cum with the guy I like

It’s not that I don’t have a hard time cuming in general, it takes me pretty long unless I’m wanking to porn, but I can eventually cum when I’m toping on a hookup.

Recently I started dating someone and we really like each other. We connect in so many levels and the sex is really passionate and affectionate, but I just can’t cum and it’s getting pretty frustrating. Specially because he has really intense prostate orgasms.

He turns me on A LOT, he makes me precum so much when we make out that we don’t even have to use lube, so attraction is not an issue. We mostly only do positions in which we can keep kissing and I really enjoy it.

I could just have him on his knees and think of porn until I cum, but it’s not what I want.

Does this happens to anyone? Any advice?