Really annoyed how dudes get offended when you say you don't want to dress fem.

As the title suggests I find it really annoying. I talk with dudes on apps and what not and then they're like: Oh my god you're so pretty I'd love for you to act like a girl and wear [INSERT CHOICE OF CLOTHING HERE]

Like if fem dudes are your thing go right ahead, but don't go to someone and say that and then get mad when they say no to it. For instance I was talking to this one dude, and he was like: Oh you're very attractive, I'm going to buy you panties to wear when we meet. I told him we aren't going to meet because that isn't my thing (among other things) and he was like: But I would love to feel your pussy.

First off its automatically a no if you call it a pussy. And Secondly you're not even asking or seeing if I'm okay with it. Dudes automatically assume/push you to be fem and it's like why? That's another question for another time (one I will definitely get canceled for) but like don't force that.