Why is it important to "integrate" effeminacy in one's life?

I'm speaking about the AGPs who crossdress systematically (who are probably the majority, I suspect).

By speaking about "integration", I'm speaking about publicly wearing something dictated by the urge for Feminisation, while paying attention to the necessary limits, according each social, political and religious context.

Why is it important then?

To

  • satisfy or partially satisfy the urge for Feminisation
  • measure the real effect of wearing feminine attire on a daily basis on one's mind
  • evaluate social reactions to a male's feminisation
  • avoid attracting women who may like one's fake masculine appearance and possibly, hipothetically, attract women who may appreciate one's feminised version.

This last point is particularly important for those who end up in relationships where their girlfriends/wives thought that their male partner was manly. One of the most famous Monty Python's sketch, the one of the "Lumberjack Song", is part of some people's real life story, and some of the involved, if not all, don't find it funny.