I just don’t know anymore

Title. I’ve been having a hard time lately with myself because I’m not sure if I’m aro. I already know I’m asexual though for sure. Around a year ago I liked a girl a lot, which gave me like a physical feeling in me (idk how to describe it) but I never felt it again. I ended up getting hurt pretty badly by her, and it really screwed me up. Now, I have a gf that I want to love and to feel for but I just don’t get that feeling anymore. I feel broken, and I don’t wanna bring it up to anyone. It took a lot of courage to bring it here. I don’t know what to do. Help?