Looking for friendly players

I just started getting into aoe4 and want to start playing multiplayer but I know how toxic players can be from other games (Overwatch, COD, etc.). I started out with co-op vs ai but even then was called an idiot.

Just looking for chill people to play with who still has fun even when losing. I already get yelled at all the time by clients at work. Just want to come home to have fun on aoe without being yelled at by strangers as well :)