Called out of work due to my daughter

I called out of work a little short of 2 hours due to my daughter she had a complete breakdown/rage and I couldn’t leave her alone with my mother in law she’s 70+yrs old. My boss texts me back saying No you need to come in. ( I didn’t ask for permission I’m telling you ). Boss kept replying saying NO like they were talking to a 5 year old. Told my boss again I’m not coming in & that my daughter takes priority over work. My job offers no benefits-No sick time, holiday pay, PTO absolutely nothing and I only make 14/hr. So if I call out I loose pay who TF thinks a parent is going to put their employment (even if I was making way more per hour) before their kid. Just had to vent.