Asking for Advice para makipagbati sa Asawa
Problem/Goal: Di kami nagpapansinan ng asawa ko for almost a week na.
Context: Nasigawan ko siya for the first time details included below.
Previous Attempts: I tried softening uo nung isang gabi during hapunan to no avail.
Afternoon people. Hingi lang sana ako (26M) ng advice pano ko i aapproach partner ko (25F). Almost 1 week na kami di naguusap or direct interaction because I have been unable to control my frustrations lately.
My frustrations started at work which resulted to me resigning because of my boss (I am a TM sa isang BPO sa Alabang). Anyways, I have been feeling really stressed out lately and somewhat broken because I have been with the company for almost 5 years and now leaving do to a powertripping credit grabbing OM. Nag reach out ako kay SO na I need her and her support because I have been burnt out ever since and feel like I am going nowhere.
When I opened up to her, she comforted me for a few minutes and went to talking with her friends sa gaming community niya. Lagi niya kausap at kalaro ang mga kaibigan niya for the past months and I feel like she spends more time with them kesa saakin. Sinasabi ko naman na sa kanya ito dati pa. It is just at this moment of my life I need her most. I know I am supposed to be toughing it out since I am the Man but I really feel weak and small lately and the only thing I can think of is her comfort and love.
A few days ago, nasungitan niya (Sa tingin ko may period na din siya, napaaga) ako and for the first time, medyo nagdabog ako ng pinto then sinita niya ako bakit daw ako nagdadabog. Then nasigawan ko siya for the first time na "Pake mo!" then stormed out paakyat sa kwarto namin. Ever since di kami nagpapansinan and she just went on with her day. We dont sleep on the same bed. Our baby girl sometimes sleeps beside her minsan sakin. I know I shouldn't have shouted at her pero di ko alam anong sasabihin sa kanya or paano siya i approach para kausapin niya ako ulit. Pakiramdam ko tuloy wala talaga siyang pake sakin.
What should I do?