helping my partner understand me

I recently made a visual for my wife of what an ADHD morning routine looks like. Each number is a new task initiation for an ADHD brain which is related to executive functioning. i then put it next to what her brain looks like in the morning so she could compare. i then put it side by side with the order in which these tasks are usually completed and how difficult it is to initiate 124 tasks in just an hour. maybe this will help others and their partners if they are struggling to explain it.