Use those hips!
Posted this in another sapphic forum so I’ll post it here too!
Hello! This is for my friends that like to strap. I’ve been strapped a few times in my day and have also seen some videos where others have too and some of yall look like a deer in headlights. Lemme hold your hand when I say this honey.. you are NOT a jackhammer ok? Use those hips!
Now I know you wanna be the best they’ve ever had so it’s a lot of pressure but I promise it’ll be ok. You don’t have to try to make it to the finish line in 5 seconds ok? (Esp if nothing is going to come out😉) If they wanted something vibrating inside of them they’d use a toy. Use those hips!
You ever see those hula dancers? The way they push that stomach out and use their hips to make that S motion? Try that! Use those hips! Put the strap on while you’re alone, stand in front of that mirror and roll that tummy. Do that shit until it’s second nature.
Now I know strapping is tiring as fuck and most of us only have half a minute of stroke in us before we’re ready to tap out but dammit it’s worth it! Keep going! Make it easier on yourself in the long run and use those hips! Especially in missionary. For the folks who are strapping someone with a G spot, use that S curl motion and you’ll have that thang coming in no time.
So again. Slow strokes. Use those hips. Fast strokes. Use those hips. Doggie. Use. Yo. Hips. Any fucking position you can think of, use those mother fucking hips!! Believe me. It’s a game changer!