What exactly is privacy?

with my beliefs and what i know from happy, healthy MARRIAGES, i find it funny when people are out here talking about “invasion of privacy” cause their suspicious partner went through their phone and found exactly what they were suspicious about to be true.

so people can be naked towards each other, lick and suck each others parts, send nudes and share all their dirty secrets about friends, family and their past, BUT… going through your partner’s phone is gross? invasion of privacy? etc… like how?

when none of y’all are cheating and there is no reason to be hiding your phone, it’s never an issue! both partners have each other’s passwords, can use each other’s phone, answer each other’s calls and text, they are free to go through each other’s phone and all…

its only when there is one toxic, egotistic, possibly cheating partner where all this comes in, and i usually associate anyone who adheres or agrees with that, to be in the same category, because how??? if you can expose your own body, something you should be very protective of to that person, how tf are you then saying they cross the line by going through your phone? you mean to say you are more protective of your phone than your body? several people can see it naked, have access to it and all, but your phone is private?

someone explain how?

i purposely said marriages up there because to me that’s the ultimate type of commitment. though some have reduced it into being a walk in walk out type of thing, some of us still hold it up high.