Lack of curiosity about my inner life

I'm dating this fella who has a lot going for him, many qualities I'm enjoying and he seems to be a decent person. We have a nice time together on our dates and so far, I'd like to continue seeing him.

However, this man shows exactly zero interest in my inner life, as in, my preferences, history, thoughts, opinions, etc. I'm remembering that this has been my experience in several circumstances and relationships with men.

I know in this case, he sees me as a person. I say that because there have been times in other relationships where I felt like a toy or a pet.

But he can't possibly think he knows me, if all he knows is how I function when I'm together with him. Yet he thinks he loves me!

I don't want to be just a loved functionary in someone's life. But this does seem to be how I've experienced relationships.