Moving to VB in few months

Hello!! My family and I are relocating to Virginia Beach in a few months. We’re a military family, so we’re used to moving frequently, but this will be our first time in Virginia. We have a 2.5-year-old toddler and are currently in search of a home to buy in safe neighborhood. We’re also looking for recommendations on daycares for our preschooler, and fun activities for kids and moms. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.