People are being weird about Kieran Culkin's Oscar's acceptance speech

So Kieran Culkin's Oscar speech when he won. People (mostly women) are being weird and parasocial about it.

For context: when he won his Emmy, he mentioned that his wife Jazz Charlton told him she'd "MAYBE" give him another child/more children if he won, and it seemed to come across as a joke. He seemed extremely sincere in that speech, even saying that the win should belong to his manager Emily for “keeping his name in the conversation” when no one was even considering casting him.

Which brings us to his Oscar acceptance speech, he tells a story about telling Jazz “actually I want four [kids]” to which she responded, “I will give you four when you win an Oscar.” Obviously she didn't mean it, and meant it to come across that she didn't think he ever would get an Oscar. In his speech he pointed it out: “love of my life, ye of little faith” and then said he loves her, no pressure, but let's start making those babies. She seemed ecstatic by his win, and laughed a lot during his speech, even confirming that she did say those things as he was telling the story. In no way did she look uncomfortable or upset.

For some reason, a few women on tiktok and twitter are saying he used the moment to humiliate her and take ownership of her body? I did not see it that way at all. They're making out like he said “I want 2 more kids and you owe me because you promised, your body my choice.”

Considering the context of the history, and how she regularly roasts him online when he doesn't win... I looked through her Instagram posts and she really roasts him LOL. Saying things like "He's back to doing what he does best - LOSING" when he lost at the Emmys, and "What can I make fun of him for now?" when he won a Golden Globe. Him saying he actually wants four kids is just one-upping her because that's how they play their game.

To me it just feels like two people who love each other, who are best friends married to each other, who have a shared joke between them. But people are being really weird about it. From everything I've seen, he's the ultimate wife guy who's head over heels in love with his wife, his family, and their life, constantly gushing about how much he loves Jazz and their children. He seems to regularly imply that their children are precious, treasured gifts that she gave to him. Even the pin on his Oscar's suit had their birthstones on it - Jazz's and their two kids. Not even his birthstone, just the ones for the people he loves most in the world.

I'm an intersectional feminist but I think these women are totally missing the mark here. I don't think it's feminist to infantilise a woman and speak for her like she's some helpless baby with no agency. She didn't have another baby after his Emmy win to appease him. There are 1000 other examples online of men humiliating their wives publicly but this wasn't one of them.

I also realise the irony here - reading this before hitting post makes me sound parasocial as well... they don't know me at all and here I am having a vent about their personal relationship LOL