Dating is a disaster.

36M Eastern European here.

I have been living in the UK for the last 15 years.

Recently, I filed for divorce and could not be happier about it. I've been separated from my wife for the past 6 years.

I have tried dating on multiple occasions, and most of the time I got either turned down, ghosted, or faced the classic situation of, "Oh, why don't you pay for everything on every date, and then I might answer your messages."

Due to the fact that I work night shifts and weekends, it is literally impossible to find anyone.

I’ve also kinda given up on the whole thing.

I’m doing just fine being single, but sometimes... it sucks. Hard.

Thanks for listening.

I already feel better.