Intimacy after knowing that you're going to marry that man and vice versa? Any success stories?

Everyone has their own preferences and I own mine unapologetically. This post is after I commented something similar and got a positive response from women here.

I don't think like this because I am ashamed of it, no. I am aware how everyone shames women for physical intimacy especially before marriage.

I just can't get physical with a man if I am not sure that we're gonna get married or have a chance of doing that. If there's not that deep love and security I just can't.

With my ex, I was in love but I couldn't do it. And my gut feeling turned out to be corrected, he fucked up badly.

I wanna know if there are any success stories of women here finding partners in this regard. Since I see everywhere men expect sex in relationships. I have read thousands of posts.

Is it okay to wait? Is it possible to find like minded people? Anybody here found them?

I'm an old school person holding a few traditional values. I expect things which can be "unfeminist" here. But still I am putting this out there, to see if women have found it. Please share your experiences.