Can I look beautiful and be safe?

Hey guys, I’ve been trying to improve my life lately, and I want to start dressing well and beautifully, but I’m afraid of making myself a target, I want to look clean and pretty, but I don’t want to draw in anyone’s unwanted attention, I can’t find anything online since I’m mostly seeing tutorials on “how to be more attractive” which doesn’t really help with my problem. Any suggestions?

Edit: thanks for all of your replies :p the world’s a pretty crazy place so it’s nice to have some help, i really appreciate it!