Ladies, when did you know your partner is a genuinely good man?

I'm in my first healthy relationship at 35 with a man I met on a night out at random. Having been in toxic and abusive relationships before is making me realise how things should br when someone is on your level.

My last relationship ended about 5 years ago so I've been single since then until now and I'm glad I took the time.

For me it's been the small things. Encouraging me too keep spending time with my friends, chasing my goals and dreams and remembering things important to me.

He makes me feel safe and isn't afraid of me being very independent.

Curious about what some of your "aha" moments were that made you realise you were with a good man.