Plenty of prostitutes are in the business because they like it.

When you mention prostitution here on Reddit, you will instantly be bombarded by a crowd of angry people who claim that all women in prostitution are being exploited and either do it because they are forced to or because they have no way out. And that to a woman being paid for sex by a man just feels like being violated.

I've in the past visited my fair share of prostitutes and erotic massage places. And frankly I have never had this experience. I remember the first time I visited a prostitute. It was a middle aged woman, living in a large house in a posh village with expensive cars in their driveway. Her husband had his own business, her kids were in college. She simply enjoyed the thrill of being a typical suburban housewife by day, while secretly being a prostitute by night.

And those types I've seen more often. It should be said they are not the 21 year old Asian women with the tight body, but usually 40+ housewives and often a bit overweight. Their motives can be;

- Just having a very liberal mentality towards sex with strangers and seeing it as an easy way to make a living (or an extra income).

- Being into specific fetishes. Especially in the BDSM scene or when their partner is a cuck who liked to watch (or sometimes the husband might join).

- Sometimes, simply being paid for sex is the fetish.

Another example would be an erotic masseuse I really liked to visit because she is very good at her job. She told me that when she came to the Netherlands, she first worked in a warehouse for 9 hours a day doing harsh physical labor and was very depressed. She finds live as an erotic massage therapist much more relaxed plus one client for 1 hour a day is enough for her to get by so she has a lot of free time.

A final example was a 26 year old college student, to who being paid for sex seemed to be a bucketlist thing she wanted to try. She was very exited and actually responded genuinely disappointed when I declined a blowjob for instance.

Sure, I admit that I'm cherry picking here, and these are not the majority of all prostitutes. But they do exist. And when you know how to look for them, I guarantee you they offer you a much more high quality experience, with the added benefit that in the end you know both of you enjoyed it and you didn't take advantage of anyone.