I don't think anyone's doing anything with anybody

There's a ton of upset men in this subreddit, and most grievances revolve around the dating scene. I think we can all agree it's completely fucked. I have had a terrible time trying to find people to connect with in general, let alone go on dates or get physical. HOWEVER, I think there is a big stipulation that there is a group of guys that are going around swinging their dicks all over the place. That's not true. There is no alpha presence taking your chances away. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with you (although it might lol) we are sucked into a vaccum of thousands of people and online dating has ruined any connection you could make genuinely. Women are not having sex with random hot guys that aren't you. No one's having sex. Everyone is uncomfortable in people's presense. Covid and tiktok destroyed our social skills and we need to focus on getting back to connecting on a basic level irl if we want to get back to more normalized dating scene. It may never happen. But you aren't missing out on something, everyone is. It's a shame that people don't want to take risks with people who are an arms reach away but thats the reality we live in.

My suggestion is stop complaining, and let it go. Work on yourself personally, find something that means something to you outside of relationships. Don't let the internet tell you you're less or undesirable cause that's fake. Our current infrastructure has deteriorated the human experience and it's not fair to get upset with other people, we are all in the same boat. Just show love in general and maybe someone will come your way. That's my spiel lol ❤️

Edit: also someone mentioned capitalism and that is 110% TRUTH our economic system is sucking our souls dry and leaving us with no mobility to enjoy and experience life.