I think I broke up a home

So, about a year and a half ago I hooked up with this guy. After we had sex, he slipped up and mentioned “his girlfriend” then quickly changed it to “his friend’s girlfriend” but I already took notice. I did some snooping after I got home and found out he had proposed to a woman three days prior to sleeping with me. I did what any good person would do and I let her know what happened in the kindest way that I could, horrified at the situation but relieved I could tell her BEFORE she married him. Well, she decided to stay and they were married 6 months later. I felt sad she would probably get cheated on again but it’s none of my business.

Well, this week the guy added me on Snapchat. I didn’t accept, but I decided to have a peek at their instagram on a hunch, and I was right. They split up after just one year of marriage. If I had to guess he probably cheated on her again, because she removed all photos of him and all of her wedding posts. The sad part is it looked like she was a mother figure to his really young child. There were lots of photos of her holding him before but those are gone too. I don’t feel bad for the guy struggling to raise his kid on his own now but the baby is probably missing her and that’s really sad. She’s probably really missing the baby too.

I’m glad she got out of an abusive situation and I hope she’s healing. I wish she didn’t have to go through a divorce so young but she did choose to marry him knowing he’s a cheater.