Too Much or Too Little

Sheesh, I just left another co-op because no one talks. I mean, nothing - no thank yous, no strategy tips, nothing. Even when I asked a game-centered question, I got no reply.

I have quit other co-ops due to too many nosy questions, people getting on soap boxes about politics and religion, and so on. I don't mind questions like, "Where are you from?" or comments people make about themselves (like their arthritis is acting up, sharing good news, etc), but proselytizing is ridiculous.

It seems hard to find a co-op that has just normal, everyday folks, with just the right amount of chat.

Anyone else have this problem?