Do you all actually have big butts?

Whenever the topic of pants comes up. People always say they need wide pants because they have huge thighs and a big butt. But when I'm walking around NYC nobody's butt looks big and their thighs look more chicken like. How big do you think your thigh has to be for it to be "big" I feel like fashion guys are only saying they have big thighs to feel "manly" Because society says liking clothes is for women. Thoughts?