swan queen fic tropes

I've read a few swanqueen fanfics and I feel like there's a few tropes that seem to be headcanons for the majority of writers: - that emma is taller than regina (idk, doesnt look like that to me on the show) - if there's a BDSM scene, the safeword is usually apple lol - emma is always made somewhat more masc than yes is - regina always wears lacy underwear...emma wears boxers (see above) - regina is outwardly latina and speaks spanish (is this even canon in the show?)

any other ones youve noticed?