“Incel caveman be like: How someone put himself and his morals over quick sex?” A black Redditor has an unfortunate exchange with a white woman on a dating app. /r/Tinder debates if someone fumbled the bag.
The Context:
A user posts an exchange to /r/Tinder between themselves — a black man — and his match — a white woman.
The woman’s first message is to ask OOP if it’s true that “once you go black you never go back.” OOP takes exception to this, calling the woman a “clown” in his post. Many commentators see the match as fetishizing OOP’s race with a well-worn cliche.
Others disagree.
The Drama:
Some highlights:
Who are we supposed to be pointing and laughing at?
You, apparently
When you cockblock yourself because you'ld rather farm karma with faux-racism...
Brother, if you think advocating for your identity and beliefs at the expense of one lay is him cock blocking himself you must be thirsty and insecure. Do you put your dick in anything that oversteps your boundaries? Nvm, I'm guessing that's rhetorical.
Brother, if you're that easely offended by a cliché remark you probably have bigger issues than being thirsty. Can you find the remark in bad taste, sure, would I bother to try and publically shame someone over it, hell i've got better things to do. But luckely I'm in a decent European country, where dating seems far less complicated than what is happenig on your side of the ocean. In a city full of foreigners and toerists, so racism is a lot less prevalent here.
Hey, you do you, judge on, if only you were half decent at it. Sadly it's more of the usual reddit: hey mam watch me I'm trying to seem smart by eloquently trowing around assumptions.
Don't ask this guy his opinion on Romani fellas
Ah yes Europe - the famously racism free continent 😭
Incel caveman be like: How someone put himself and his morals over quick sex?
Reddit white knight be like: they said black, they must be racist.
It's not about the quick sex my man, it's about rather complaining about racism that isn't racism. You should all get laid, it might take some frustrations away
Stereotyping because of skincolor is pretty racist my dude
This is at best a misplaced cliché used as opener. But sure, if you're offended you must be right. Let's ask the echochamber.
The "misplaced cliche" is what's racist you moron.
You're from a country with 1% population of black people.
Somehow I don't think you're really the best person to speak on what racism is defined by, you probably have very little real first hand experience on these topics.
Your reply is more racist and definitely more malicious than the comment you are upset about
Explain
Woman's remark is meant as a compliment / pickup line. Guy's remark is meant as an insult.
Yall cannot be this damn down bad lmao. I personally prefer women that don’t disrespect my whole race as the first thing they say to me ya meshuggah
It was an attempt at flirting. Can't blame you though, I've turned down women after they sexualise me for being tall lmao
Edit: I guess you guys have decided it's okay to fetishize certain people, cool
About a good of an attempt at flirting as matching with an alt-girl and opening with "oooh I've always wanted a big tiddy goth gf"...