I give up

Came here to moan and find out if anyone else has felt this way. I’ve been living in Argentina for almost 3 years, my gf speaks to me in English. I thought I’d ‘pick it up’ through immersion, that didn’t work. Started Duolingo, language transfer and a private teacher a year ago, I felt I was making progress recognising basic sentences on Duolingo, but when I’m in real life situations I literally understand 5% of what people actually say, if that. I’m starting to get really depressed and tired of this, I’ve put in a lot of effort and the results just don’t show at all. I feel like everyone is judging me for being stupid, and maybe I am because I just can’t see myself getting anywhere near where I need to be for basic dsy to day interaction. Anyone else ever been through this?