Why are some of yall so obsessed with winning? Why not just play to have fun?

Note: Please be honest. I know a good amount of people on this subreddit are guilty of this.

I'm genuinely curious about this. I just played and won 5 matches (. 4 out of 5 of those matches the players just gave up and S'd cause its was likely they weren't going to win (I was up 3 stocks). I play this game specifically for fun so even if Im getting destroyed by someone WAY better than me at the game (which happens everyday when you're around 15 million GSP) I still play the game through to the end because its really fun fighting someone with actual top tier skills who's reading you like a book and you cant do anything about it (LOOKING AT YOU DIRTY SHIEK MAINS LOL).

So, why care about winning/losing so much and not setting your main priority to have fun? I promise a lot of you guys would do better if you focused on that and community would be in a better place.

Edit: I guess I'm a masochist cause I really don't mind losing and sometimes get pleasure out of it if the match is fun lol