Does anyone else struggle wit this?

Okay so i follow a lot of prison/prison wife content online, helps me feel like I'm not alone. Recently I'm seeing a lot on tiktok by former inmates/former prison wives basically warning people away from dating men in the joint. Saying you're never the only one, there is always someone else. Other women they're writing to, putting money on his books, visiting him etc. How true is this? I like to think I'm an incredibly good judge of character and I trust my man. Little bit more info - my man gets out of a Minnesota DOC Dec 2026. He's never asked me for ANYTHING. Sends me flowers, cards, pictures, letters, gifts etc. I'm in the UK and he's in the US. So it isn't cheap for him to do so. Like I said, I trust my man. He's never given me any reason not to. He's very straight to the point and open. Doesn't like to waste his time (ironic, i know). But there's that seed of doubt in the back of my head when I read and hear content like that, you know? I know social media is absolutely awful for relationships generally too. Can anyone else relate? If so, how did you get past these thoughts? Needed to get that off my chest. Thanks for reading.