Arousal changes

I’ve been training strictly for 6 months, including no porn, nude, underwear, swimsuit, or even cleavage or tight pants images during masturbation. I only use images of fully-covered women (usually from r/prettygirls), and use that to masturbate with OFM every other day.

I’ve noticed something: even though in daily life, one does see sexy women, wearing shorts, tight pants, cleavage, etc. from time to time, I never get hard from that now, not even in fantasy later. My body/brain seem now used to the fact that since I don’t look at that to masturbate, seeing sexy attire is an indicator of NOT being brought to orgasm. Like I now know that women wearing anything less than full coverage are not within my purview or world.

A problem with this though is that now when my wife wants to have sex, infrequent though it may be, it isn’t as easy or quick to get an erection. Like, it’s a mental hurdle to get over that a woman who is sexy and wearing little clothing is NOT a signal that nothing sexual will happen, as it usually is now for me.

What to do? I reduced my visual stimulation like this due to it being recommended with the one finger method as written up here on the Wiki. My goal of course was to make sexy women OVERstimulating, not a turn-off somehow!