AITA: Removed in-laws access to our baby cam

My wife’s parents live out of state and dote a lot on our 2 year old son. My wife thought it’d be a great idea to give them access to our baby cam so they can hear him playing and interact with him whenever he’s in his room.

The problem is that they check in constantly - when I’m changing his diapers, when they hear him go in for a shower, when he’s making a fuss over something. And oftentimes ask “why is he crying??” Or “what are you doing grandson” over the camera mic

I finally had enough and unplugged the baby cam today (son has been sleeping with us these days so we don’t need the monitoring anyways). My father in law makes a big deal out of this and asks us to reconnect the camera, citing he would miss interacting with my son. We just brush it off saying we don’t need it so we stashed it away.

My wife feels conflicted but I felt the need to draw the line somewhere - it always seemed super weird to me to give them access in the first place, and felt like they were helicopter parenting by checking in on us constantly.