Update: 6 y/o losing his mind on vacation

Update: We got a hotel. He had another major meltdown and bit one of the host's kids. Destroyed the bedroom again. Threw his own ipad down the stairs. Our host suggested we go anywhere else for the night. I will never live this down.

No, my husband isn't helpful. He does no day to day childcare and when his son acts up he either gives him whatever he wants or looks at me to stop him. He will look at his child screaming his head off, look to me and say "make him stop."

This trip has just been way too much. We are on the list for an assessment for him regarding his sensory issues. I was finally able to get out of him what's actually wrong and it's the noise and his bigger cousins pushing him around. The moment we got settled he passed out and slept for hours. We got noise cancelling headphones and a plan for a place for him to go when we're over at the house and he can't deal with it.

I did a lot of prep with him for this trip but actually being here has been a different experience. Extra points to anyone who said "sick" because he has a horrible cough now too. I am considering leaving sooner even though it would cause drama. No, I have no idea what I was thinking agreeing to this in the first place.