Pinasok ko kapatid ng boyfriend ko sa work ko, worst mistake

arggh labas ko na lang dito kase sawa na ang mga irl tao marinig rants ko.

basically freelance worker ako wfh. overseas client. Pinasok ko yung kapatid ng boyfriend ko sa work since sakto it was the time they needed money for her education and kumbaga tulong ko na sakanila yon.

Fast forward, it was the worst mistake i’ve ever done.

At first, naintindihan ko may learning curve sa work namen but it seems like she’s not absorbing anything. 6-7 months in, she’s still asking the same questions with work and paulet ulet kame. Every time i try to jog her memory di daw nya maalala???

“tulad lang yan ng dati, diba ganun ginawa mo?” “tagal na non, di ko na tanda yon”

… grabe. She also has no sense of urgency, at all. Kaya ako naparant ulet dahil sa recent happening lang. Basically it was an urgent matter sa work that needs to be settled today. From the moment she woke up, I reminded her about it (another thing I have to do for her) even before she left the house (we live in the same roof) I reminded her about it. Fast forward midnight, di pa rin settled and our boss had to follow up. She wasn’t able to reply after an hour because she was outside doing good knows what, and only did the task right on that moment ??? Nakakaloka, buong araw ko sya rinemind about it.

And today!! May scheduling kame, alternate days who will be in charged sa work, sya nakaschedule today but she asked me to do something for her since di nya magagawa. I obliged. then i noticed ako na pala gumagawa lahat. So i messaged her sabi ko palit na lang kame ng schedule ako na rin pala gumagawa lahat

and she just answered “ganon rin wala rin ako bukas, trip mo ba ikaw sunod sunod?”

Siguro badtrip lang ako pero nainis ako sa sagot nya. She doesn’t think ahead sa work kase alam nyang may sasalo sakanya.

I’m so fed up her. Just note, i live in the same house with her, my boyfriend and his family. Okay kame sa ibang bagay pero sa work lang talaga nagkakandaleche leche. Ang pangit kase ng work ethics nya di ko na matiis. I already tried opening up this with her, last month lang. I even made a list and talked every point in detail para magets nya where i’m coming from pero ganito pa rin.

Pls lord give me the strength para makaraos dito

Edit: I just want to mention for the people who says i should let her na lang, hayaan ko sya sa work nya para matuto etc. and even report her to my boss. Sadly, it doesn’t work that way sigh I confirmed this because may napabayaan sya na work, ending kami parehas napagalitan and my boss even said na I should be responsible for this bla bla, dalawang heads na daw nagwowork dapat walang nangyayare na problems …. kaya wag kayo magapply saken, ako na lang hanapan nyo 💀