Boys, if you call a girl “bhen” while joking, you definitely don’t like her… right?

Please help a girl out. I (17F) met this guy online, and we chat a lot—he’s funny, and after a long day of studying, I enjoy talking to him.

I’m only looking for friendship and have never hinted at anything more. But sometimes, he says things that feel very flirty , yet other times, he calls me “bhen” like "bhen tujhse na ho payega" while joking.

That makes me think he doesn’t like me that way… right? Cause honestly I also call my crush bhai while joking, it's just the way of speaking for me. But how is it for guys?

I recently dealt with a guy who accused me of leading him on when I never did, it was so messy and I don’t want that drama again. Am I overthinking, or should I be cautious?

Edit : I just got to know he basically stalked my whole profile 😭 Like read , all of my posts, comments and then wrote me a paragraph about how special I am apon seeing one of my depressing posts.i appreciate it a lot. But What does this mean ??? Do you stalk your friends social media?