Thoughts- how often do you change pee diapers? 17 diaper mom controversy

So I’m feeling really confused now. When my baby was a newborn and had very delicate skin I would change her every time she peed and pooped including at night. But now she’s older (9m) and doesn’t poop every day, i change her every few hours. She never had nappy rash.

On TikTok there’s been massive controversy about this lady nurse Hannah not changing her boy for just a pee. And in real life all my mom friends do exactly the same as me, just every few hours and not after every pee?

Am I doing it wrong? My mother, friends etc all have let me know I don’t have to change every single pee, especially as she’s breastfed and pees constantly! The diaper company pampers say you don’t have to either as they’re so absorbent.

And what about in the night? She never leaks, what about babies who sleep all night in their diaper?