Change where you dwell

When you have a change you want to make in your life, you need to return to the feeling of your wish fulfilled repeatedly.

From Neville Goddard's Where Are You Staying?

To change your state or identity, you change where you dwell mentally.

You do this by consistently setting intentions that align with your desired outcome.

For example, if you’ve defined a goal or a wish - such as achieving a fulfilling relationship, advancing in your career, becoming wealthy, or creating confidence - you need to focus on what it would feel like to already have it.

Ask yourself: How would my ideal self behave if I had this thing? If I had this love, this specific relationship, this career, the financial security, or even the physical appearance I desire, how would I feel? How would I spend my time?

Once you identify these answers, you set your intentions to match.

This process is about creating your new self in real time. It’s about consistently aligning your thoughts and actions with your desired identity.

By repeatedly setting and revisiting your intentions, you begin to dwell in the reality of your ideal self, and over time, this becomes your new normal.