Gyno Rec — Trauma Informed?

Hi all! Looking for a new gynecologist who is able to work with someone with PTSD caused by rape/sexual assault. It’s been a little while since I’ve gone to the gyno — I used so see Emory Ship at Kindbody and loved her but she moved to Tia and they were weird about me requesting a specific practitioner. I frankly don’t understand their membership model and what you get for signing up, anyway.

I’m looking for someone who is warm and gentle — I don’t need much now other than annual visits but I would like to establish a relationship ahead of having kids in a few years. I also would like for them to be in-network with Aetna!

EDIT: thank you all for the recs! I hope this thread helps other NYC BWTs because I know how hard it can be to feel comfortable with care 🫶