Heterosexual men are very attractive to trans women (duh!)

I'm stating the obvious, but the obvious needs to be stated as society has done a great job at convincing all of you that you are unattractive, gross, and undeserving of love. A lot of you are much more attractive than what you think.

There's no biological or evolutionary reason that prevents heterosexual men from being attracted to you. Men are visual, and if you look good, they will feel genuine attraction towards you, whether you're trans or cis. Attraction is way less enigmatic and less mystical than what people like to believe. Men can't sniff your chromosomes, contrary to what transphobes tell you. If men know that you're trans, there will be an additional mental barrier hindering their attraction, but this barrier is purely psychological and not biological, physical, chromosomal, or genetic.

I'm not gonna pretend that being trans is easy and that it's all sunshine and rainbows, but once you reach THE turning point, you'll realize how amazing you are. I've reached that turning point where I wouldn't want to be cis anymore. I have a lot of good qualities, physical and intellectual, and I'll never let anyone make me feel less simply because I'm trans. I just wish I had known 5 years ago what I know today. I wouldn't have made the mistakes I've made (like entertaining filthy chasers, or dating ugly guys who ended up treating me worse than attractive guys, simply because I stupidly believed that ugly guys are more forgiving).

Please love yourself. It sounds corny, but have high standards. Do everything in your power to pass and to feel comfortable in your skin, but don't you ever dare to entertain ugly losers who'll treat you like shit simply because they manipulated you into believing that you're inferior and less deserving than a cis woman.

In public and online and on surveys, most men will lie and say they aren't attracted to trans women, but that is not true. The most beautiful, creative, charismatic women I've ever met in my entire life happened to be trans. It can't be a coincidence. And they get a lot of male attention.

*I'm not talking about chasers. Chasers are a completely different beast. The attraction that chasers feel towards non-operative trans women is fetishistic in nature. It's not a holistic type of attraction that humans feel for each other, that is why you should never ever entertain a chaser. Chasers are incompatible with trans women.