Please stop centering your menopause around HIM.

I’m just beginning my menopause journey, but I’ve been following this message board for some time. The few women I see on here wondering if HE will like your shrinking labia, filler, getting HRT, etc., etc. is disturbing. This is outdated male-centered thinking around an issue that has little to nothing to do with men. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been with my husband for 20+ years and he should know what I’m going through, but at no point is this about what he likes or wants, it’s about ME and MY BODY. My hope is that all women experiencing this physical change can also make that mental shift, if they haven’t already.