I actually don’t like my wife

She’s an amazing mum, but just a horrible wife. She always puts me down, I’m always running around after her, I’m never good enough. She has to always be right about everything. I’ve got a lot to give, i work hard, I look after myself…go to the gym 5 days a week…..but she’s just not a nice person

Edit: thank you for the comments and there a lot….a lot about the gym. Well for start I go to the gym at 6am when everyone is in bed (all be it changing slightly with the new baby). Some have said I’m not a ‘good husband’…‘don’t have a lot to offer’….or a ‘looser’ I work two jobs, pretty much all of my money goes into the family, I do the washing, cooking and cleaning, and I play with the kids…i’m a nice guy and that has been my downfall…where I say I needed control was as in I wasn’t great with money when we started dating but 12 years on I have changed…I’m not the person I was 12 years ago which I’m 100% is the same for us all. I like to laugh and enjoy myself. Divorce is not easy….my family split when I was young and it wrecked me. And actually some times I come on here to vent